Balancing traditions on your wedding day

Balancing tradition with personal style in a wedding can be a beautiful way to honor your roots while making the day uniquely yours. Never have we seen such a time we you can do just about anything.  Make it your love story!!

Here are a few ways to approach it:

1. Prioritize Meaningful Traditions Focus on traditions that resonate with you and your fiancé, whether they hold family significance or have a cultural or religious meaning.  Couples are finding creative ways to balance traditions and modernity in their ceremony and reception.

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2. Blend Old and New Mix traditional elements with modern touches, like adding classic decor but with a contemporary twist.

3. Personalize Rituals If there are rituals or customs that don’t fully align with your vision, consider modifying them. 25 years ago everyone participated in the garter toss.  This is where the groom would remove the garter from the bride and tosses it into a crowd of single men.   We have not seen the toss but a few times at the Admiral Room. Instead, you could have a photo taken of the single guests and look back on this a few years later to see the differences.  Make it your own!

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4.  Incorporate Personal Elements:

When you think of your wedding day, it is easy to focus heavily on the reception, but incorporating traditional elements can help anchor the day for its deeper meaning. A first look or first touch with a prayer or private vows, a unity event during your ceremony, a traditional blessing, or a private dinner can be beautiful ways to uphold the day’s significance while still leaving room for dancing and celebration.  We have seen a variety of wonderful ideas.  Let us know you are interested in any of these, and we will assist you in the planning.

When you choose a locally owned wedding venue you are helping to develop and improve the local economy? It’s true, your locally owned wedding venues are small business owners who not only create hundreds of jobs for the local wedding industry every year, we actively support our local economy. Please consider a locally owned venue, you can find locally owned wedding venues featured on this wedding venue map.

Lovegrove Estate — Charleston Wedding & Events Venue

http://www.thebougainvilleas.com

http://www.themamaison.com

http://www.rosehaven.com

http://www.vistawestranch.com

 

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Weddings in Niagara Falls, The OFFICE wedding

Many options for a wedding in Western NY and Niagara Falls NY can include something like, Jim Halpert and Pam Beesly of NBC’s hit show The Office, who tied the knot in Niagara Falls with a two part wedding episode. While their initial plan was to get married in a church, they made a last minute decision to sneak away, board the famous MAID OF THE MIST  http://www.maidofthemist.comand ask the captain to marry them.

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The Maid of the Mist, http://www.maidofthemist.com is a must do for all visitors of the falls.  Head down to the dock and get aboard the boat.  Be prepared by wearing they blue poncho, or you will get soaked.  Admire the views as the captain master guides you around the Niagara Gorge to experience the roar and beautiful wonder of the falls.  If you are planning on getting married abord the boat, make sure to bring your own officiants, as the real life Maid of the Mist captains don’t perform marriages.  http://www.jcofficiants.com

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A wedding at Niagara Falls offers a stunning natural backdrop and a breathtaking experience. Whether you’re interested in an elaborate affair or an intimate elopement, there are many options to consider:
Other Ceremony Locations include:
   – The Falls Itself:  Exchange vows with the majestic Niagara Falls as your backdrop. Popular spots include Terrapin Point (U.S. side) and Queen Victoria Park (Canadian side).
    – Niagara-on-the-Lake: This historic town near Niagara Falls is famous for its charming venues and wineries.
Seasonal Considerations:
   – Summer Ideal for outdoor weddings with warm weather and vibrant greenery.
   – Winter: A winter wedding offers a magical setting with the frozen Falls and holiday lights, but be prepared for cold temperatures.
 Legal Requirements:
   – Marriage License: Ensure you have a valid marriage license. Requirements vary depending on whether you’re marrying on the Canadian or U.S. side.
   – Officiants: You’ll need an officiant licensed in Ontario (Canadian side) or New York State (U.S. side) to perform the ceremony.
Activities for Guests:
   – Niagara Falls Boat Tours-  A ride on the Maid of the Mist or Hornblower Niagara Cruises can be a fun activity for guests.
   – Casino Niagara or Fallsview Casino: For those who enjoy gaming, the casinos offer entertainment and nightlife.
   – Wine Tours:  Organize a wine-tasting tour for guests in the Niagara wine region.
Transportation:
   – Horse-drawn Carriage:  Arrive at your wedding in a classic horse-drawn carriage.
   – Helicopter: For a more dramatic entrance or exit, consider a helicopter ride over the Falls.

WNY offers a wide variety of activities for brides and grooms.

Please help us create awareness for the value and importance of supporting our locally owned wedding venues across the country and around the world. Locally owned wedding venues generate millions of dollars for our local economy. If you are searching for a wedding venue, please choose locally owned. You can find the best wedding venues in the world listed on our wedding venue map.

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http://www.1908grand.com

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Top Taylor Swift Wedding Songs to play at your wedding

Taylor Swift has several songs that make great choices for weddings here at the Admiral Room! http://www.admiralroom.com

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Taylor hits all genres of music, whether you’re looking for something romantic, heartfelt, or fun. Here are some suggestions:

GETTING READY – Start your day off right.

Song: “Our Song”- there is also an instrumental cover

“King Of my Heart”- there is also an instrumental cover

“Daylight” from the Lover Album

“You Are in Love” – from 1989 Album

CEREMONY RECESSIONAL

“Paper Rings”- from Lover Album

GRAND ENTRANCE-  you can introduce your squad with:

“Starlight” or “Gorgeous”, “Long Live”

FIRST DANCE- The first dance is iconic intimate moment with all eyes on you both.

“Lover” or “Sweet Nothing”

PARENT-CHILD DANCE- this is a time honored wedding tradition.

“Never Grow Up”

RECEPTION SONGS-

“Shake it off”, “Ready for it”, Cruel Summer”

END OF THE NIGHT SONG

“Today was a Fairytale”

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Two more suggestions we like,

New Year’s Day – This song reflects on the importance of sticking together through all of life’s moments

“Everything Has Changed” (feat. Ed Sheeran) – A duet that celebrates how life changes in the most wonderful ways with love.

These songs cover a range of moods and moments, so you can pick the one that best fits the vibe you want for your wedding day!

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Please help us create awareness for the value and importance of supporting our locally owned wedding venues across the country and around the world. Locally owned wedding venues generate millions of dollars for our local economy. If you are searching for a wedding venue, please choose locally owned. You can find the best wedding venues in the world listed on our wedding venue map.

Officiating a Wedding Ceremony at your wedding venue

Officiating a wedding is a special responsibility that can be both exciting and nerve-wracking. Here are the top 10 tips to help you at the Admiral room http://www.admiralroom.com 

1. Understand the Legal Requirements

   – Make sure you’re legally authorized to officiate weddings in the location where the ceremony will take place. Check the local laws regarding officiants and ensure all paperwork, such as your ordination or license, is in order.  Mail in Officiant licenses are sufficient. Getting Married | Buffalo, NY (buffalony.gov)

2. Deciding on the Officiant

– are you interested in a family member or friend or a local officiant.  Reach out to us and we can help you. Our favorite in Buffalo is . http://www.jcofficiants.com

3.   Get to know the couple 

   – Understand the couples vision with their ceremony. Learn their preferences, religious or cultural elements, and any special requests they might have.

4. Prepare and Personalize the Ceremony Script

   – Write a draft of the ceremony script, including the welcome, vows, exchange of rings, and any readings or rituals. Personalize it to reflect the couple’s relationship and personalities.

 5. Rehearse the Ceremony

   – Practice delivering the ceremony aloud to get comfortable with the script. Try very hard to make it to the wedding rehearsal to familiarize yourself with the venue and timing.  Do you want a microphone?  Do you want a podium.  This all has to be determined prior to the day.

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6. Speak Clearly and Confidently

   – Project your voice so everyone can hear you, especially if you’re not using a microphone. Practice speaking clearly and at a steady pace.

7.  Engage the Audience

   – Make eye contact with the couple and the guests. Create a warm, inclusive atmosphere by acknowledging the importance of their presence.  MAKE SURE to tell guests what to do after the ceremony concludes.  Are you getting photos or going right to the cocktail hour?  How do they get there?

 8. Handle Emotions Gracefully

   – Weddings can be emotional. If you or the couple becomes teary, pause briefly, and allow everyone to collect themselves before continuing.

photo credit Stefan Lugwig

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 9.  DONT BE IN THE FIRST KISS PICTURE

   – move out of the way for pictures.  PLEASE move!  As soon as the couple turns to face the crowd, move to the side .

10. Sign the Marriage License

   – After the ceremony, ensure the marriage license is signed correctly by the couple, witnesses, and yourself. Return the license to the appropriate authority as required.

These tips should help you feel prepared and confident when officiating a wedding!

We recommend working with local owned wedding venues.  Here are a few top family owned venues around the county:

www.blissfulbarn.com

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www.thegladevenue.com

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www.thegatheringplace6.com

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www.lakefrontacres.com

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Say Yes to the Dress- Top Luxury Bridal Shops in NY

So you are engaged and you’ve booked us, http://www.admiralroom.com for your venue.  What is the next step in planning your dream wedding.  One of the most exciting and memorable parts of the process is finding the perfect wedding dress.  We can jump on a train or drive 5 hours to some of the most luxurious and high-end wedding dress shops in the world. Make a weekend out of shopping in NYC with friends and family.
We’ve curated a list of the top 10 luxury wedding dress shops in New York City to help you find that perfect dress for your special day.
  1. Kleinfeld Bridal: Located in Manhattan, Kleinfeld Bridal is famous for being featured on the hit TV show “Say Yes to the Dress.” They offer a wide range of designer dresses and personalized appointments with expert stylists.
  2. Mark Ingram Atelier: This upscale bridal boutique in Midtown Manhattan carries couture gowns from top designers such as Vera Wang, Oscar de la Renta, and Marchesa.
  3. Bridal Reflections: With locations in Manhattan and Long Island, Bridal Reflections offers a selection of handcrafted gowns from renowned designers like Galia Lahav and Reem Acra.
  4. Gabriella New York Bridal Salon: Located in SoHo, Gabriella New York specializes in modern and fashion-forward bridal designs from both international and emerging designers.
  5. The White Gown: This boutique in Brooklyn Heights offers a curated collection of elegant and sophisticated dresses for the modern bride. They also provide customization options for a truly unique look.
  6. Saks Fifth Avenue Bridal Salon: Known for their luxury designer clothing, Saks Fifth Avenue’s bridal salon offers an exclusive selection of high-end wedding dresses from brands like Carolina Herrera and Monique Lhuillier.
  7. L’Fay Bridal: Situated in downtown NYC, L’Fay Bridal showcases European-inspired gowns with intricate detailing and luxurious fabrics for brides who want a touch of glamour on their big day.
  8. Panache Bridal & Beauty Lounge: Located on Staten Island, Panache Bridal & Beauty Lounge caters to brides looking for a diverse selection of styles ranging from classic to trendy. photo credits:  http://www.stefan-lugwig.com

 

9. Designer Loft: This boutique near Union Square features an array of chic and contemporary wedding dresses from both established designers and up-and-coming talents.

10. Amsale Flagship Salon: Amsale is known for her clean lines and modern aesthetic, making her flagship salon on Madison Avenue a go-to destination for brides seeking sophisticated simplicity

Apart from these top 10 luxury wedding dress shops in New York City, there are also many other options available for brides locally.
 Bliss Bridal, Victoria Bridal, Dalia’s Bridal Inc, Bridal Chateau and Made by Anatomy
Finding your dream wedding dress should be an exciting part of your wedding planning journey! Whether it’s classic elegance or modern sophistication, these luxury wedding dress shops have something for every bride-to-be.
Happy shopping!

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