How to plan a wedding in 3 months in Buffalo NY

We’re going to break down exactly how to plan a wedding in 3 months.. Whether you’re newly engaged and eager to say “I do,” have time restrictions or way behind on wedding planning.

We here at the http://www.admiralroom.com work with many different types of weddings and we work with different timelines as well.   Did you know we have approximately 6 weddings a year that has a tight timeline within 3 to 6 months. It can be done and we are here to assist you.

Yes, getting married within 12 weeks is possible.  Let’s do this.  Planning a wedding in three months may make you nervous, but with the right approach and being organized with checklists, it’s entirely possible to create a beautiful celebration of your love.  Whether you’re eager to tie the knot quickly or working with a tight timeline, we can make this work for a wedding in 3 months.

Let’s get some help from the interest.  Find a publication with checklist,  use some pointer from us or friends that have recently been married or hire a wedding planner that does this for a living.

Can you plan a wedding in 3 months?

Is 3 months enough time to plan a wedding? Yes, you can plan a wedding in 3 months as long as you have a clear budget and the right tools to move forward you can definitely get it done, the key is keeping your planning basic! 🙂

Know your expectations, this probably won’t be an elaborate 300 person black-tie affair, but you can create a beautiful and meaningful celebration in just 12 weeks. Get ready to be flexible, prioritize what’s most important to you, and stay organized throughout the entire process.

How to plan a wedding in 3 months

prioritizing must-haves to securing vendors.

Month 3

During this crucial first month, you need to:

  1. Set a wedding date and budget. This must be your first step as it will affect every following event and to-do.BE FLEXBILE. Have a few days in mind as you may need to shift things around based on venue availability. The budget will help guide you as you begin planning some of your larger expenses, primarily the venue.
  2. Consider hiring a wedding planner. They plan weddings for a living, so chances are this will make your wedding planning timeline a lot less stressful.
  3. Decide on your wedding style or overall vibe for your wedding day.
  4. Get started with design, create a vision board, or use a Pinterest board to visualize your ideas and share them with your vendors.
  5. Create a guest list. Consider your budget, your potential guest’s availability, and your potential venue. Keeping it smaller may be a smart move with less time to plan. Focus on essential friends and family for this short timeframe.
  6. Book your wedding venue. This is essential! You can’t have a wedding without a location. In terms of a wedding planning timeline, this will be a crucial step. Reach out to Cyndi at the  http://www.admiralroom.com
  7. Start researching wedding vendors. A wedding planner or the ADMRIAL ROOM will assist you with great vendors.   Begin looking into photographers, florists, cake bakers, decor, rentals, DJs, and make-up artists. Flexibility is key here as certain vendors may be booked up, but you’ll definitely be able to find what you need and get creative when you can’t
  8. Look into stationery and send out save-the-dates. Time is of the essence, do a fun video to send out,  look up tik tok “ when I’m feeling good” announcement videos.  If sending paper invites is crucial for you, start planning on that early. If not, consider a stylish email invite!  It’s critical that you let your guests know to keep your wedding in mind for the next three months.
  9. Choose your wedding party. Select and coordinate with your wedding party. These friends, family, and loved ones will be your closest confidants in this period (except for maybe your wedding planner or US).
  10. Start shopping for wedding attire. Begin looking for your wedding dress, suit, or other formalwear. If you’re in the market for a gown, keep in mind that bridal salons tend to book up far in advance and most custom gowns take at least six months to prepare.
  11. Research marriage license requirements. Start looking into the marriage laws for wherever your ceremony is being held so you’re prepared once it comes time for the marriage license.
  12. Order your wedding cake.
  13. Consider honeymoon options.
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Month 2

With two months to go, focus on:

  1. Send out wedding invitations.
  2. Book your honeymoon.
  3. Finalize vendors. Lock in your vendors and confirm the final dates, plans, and options (music choices, menu, etc.) for catering, music, photography, and more.
  4. Create a wedding website. Consider lining this up with your invitations so you have a website to point your guests to right away.  Rsvpify is one we use for our events.
  5. Plan additional wedding events. Consider bachelor or bachelorette parties, rehearsal dinners, or an engagement party. What do you have time for in your wedding plans?
  6. Decide on hair and makeup options. Whether you’re going to DIY or not, start making this plan now.

Month 1

Here’s a list for the final month before your wedding!

  1. Obtain your marriage license. Be mindful of your state or country’s laws here, not all marriage licenses are created equal. Look up https://www.health.ny.gov/vital_records/marriage.htm   You can order your marriage certificate on this site.
  2. Confirm RSVPs and finalize seating arrangements. You want to have the final count before confirming and paying your venue/ vendors.
  3. Have final fittings for wedding attire. This includes your wedding dress, suit, and any alterations needed.
  4. Confirm all details with vendors and wedding professionals. Finalize all wedding payments for your vendors.
  5. Write vows and speeches. Pick your readings and write your wedding vows.
  6. Finalize decor elements. Will you be using the Admiral Rooms décor.
  7. Decide on and buy your wedding favors. Will you have a donation instead of favors? You can offer a dessert station in lieu of favors.
  8. Organize a timeline for the wedding day.
  9. Do a walk-through of the wedding venue, so you can get a feel for the place.
  10. Design your wedding ceremony.
  11. Review all last-minute wedding details.
  12. Finalize seating chart.
  13. Schedule or make final payments to vendors.
  14. Make final accessory purchases.
  15. Pack for your honeymoon. Start prepping honeymoon activities and logistics.
  16. Make sure your wedding party is ready to go.
  17. If you want to have a your bachelor or bachelorette party! Now is the time. Let’s party!!!

You’re now down to the final week, here are some basics, but see our week of wedding checklist to really make sure you get this right!  List by www.loverly.com.

  1. Plan post-wedding activities (brunch, dinner, etc). You already have a lot on your plate, but a little extra thank you brunch with your wedding party never hurt anyone.
  2. Finalize vendor timelines. Discuss and outline delivery, set-up, and breakdown with the site manager and vendors.
  3. Pack for your honeymoon. Now is not the time for last-minute packing, folks!
  4. Rehearse ceremony at the venue. Even if you aren’t doing a rehearsal dinner, you want to have the wedding party positions and order down the aisle figured out and practiced.
  5. Pick up or prep your wedding wear. Whether you’re picking up a rental tux or getting your gown out for a steam, now’s the time to make sure it’s all ready to go.
  6. Give your marriage license to the officiant. Just to make sure they have it ready to go!
  7. Create an emergency contact list. Always important, especially on a day with as many moving parts as a wedding day.
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Remember, you can do this.  While planning a wedding in 3 months may seem challenging, it’s achievable with the right tools, mindset and organization.

We can’t wait to assist you both.  Cheers!

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